📚 The Coddling of the American Mind

Read: The Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt

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My Reading Highlights and Notes

INTRODUCTION The Search for Wisdom

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Finished Reading: Radical Respect by Kim Scott 📚 Recommended

I’m not sure there was anything entirely original here, but it was well-organized and well-argued. I’ll be getting my own copy as a reference.

Looked at tinylytics and one of my best “performing” posts was one with criticisms of micro.blog (ahead of the notes announcement) that I took down pretty quickly as I thought better of it.

Perpetually saddened that conflict “sells” so well.

Read: The Red House Mystery by A. A. Milne 📚 Recommended

I kinda got the it figured out early on, but it was still good fun.

my spouse and I both surprised each other with a copy of Hues and Cues today 🤭💖

Review: Boox Palma

I hedged and waited for months, but finally got the Boox Palma.

I’ve had it for a few days and it’s doing exactly what it’s supposed to:

keep my phone out of my hand

I’ve left my phone in other rooms many times at home. I’ve taken walks without it. I even left my phone in the car at a concert (and took an OCR of the schedule to refer to in the Palma). Between a watch with cellular ability to catch me in an emergency, and this Palma, the desire to have a device to “do stuff” or “just in case” fades away.

The OS is based on Android and it’s a little sketchy, but I’m only going to use this for reading, and am locking it down otherwise.

Oh, and of course I’m reading much more, too.

To that end, I’ve installed:

Most of these work great! There have been a couple hiccups:

  1. Kindle and Readwise don’t play well together with highlights on the e-ink. Readwise adds a tag for any highlight color that’s not the default neon yellow1, and neon yellow doesn’t show up well on the default layout in Kindle. I worked around this by switching to the “dark mode” theme in Kindle and sticking with the default highlights.
  2. Micro.blog/Epilogue doesn’t support passwords2, so you have to hand copy in an app token or risk turning the Palma into pocket computer with email and web browser, defeating the purpose of the device!

Reader has been the standout winner. It has access to all my saved articles, important newsfeeds, and my DRM free ebooks (including a great collection from Standard Ebooks). In addition, it has a lot of smart extra features, like “volume buttons for page turn” and other quality-of-life improvements over other article, feed, or book readers.

I’m very glad I got this, and kicking myself a little for waiting so long.

the Boox Palma, an eink device based, based on Android, that fits in your palm.

  1. This is normally a useful feature, especially with the ability to auto-rename/auto-adjust tags…but not helpful here ↩︎

  2. It uses email auth links, apple ID, and/or app tokens ↩︎

📚 Amusing Ourselves to Death

📚Finished Reading: Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman

Highly Recommended. I read Technopoly previously and still found a lot of value in this.

Amusing Ourselves to Death book cover

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🧑‍🍳 had some aging mulberries, so I soaked them in Brown County Old Barrel Port overnight, then added a little water and a dash of maple extract. Reduced and strained it to make a sauce for protein pancakes.

Very tasty, though I would reduce it longer next time.

🔎 Saw a doe and a tiny fawn and I am dead of cute.

(but please don’t eat all the new trees, k?)

🎶 Got to see American Arson for the first time today. The duo was great and Evan Baker (singer/guitarist) seemed to be having a ton of fun and was gracious with the audience. They encouraged a singalong to “Hammer & Gavel”, which I happily obliged.

Talked to Jesse Gentry (drummer) before the show. Got a non-black shirt (yay!). Also chatted about Rise & Fall which is their only release that one can’t get right now, except as a cassette. (The rest are available on Bandcamp or the Facedown Records site.)

He mentioned they are talking to Facedown about maybe re-recording that and some other material!

I periodically think about how TV is rarely depicted on TV.

(Some) people will watch others play video games. But almost nobody wants to watch others watch TV.

It says something, but I’m not sure exactly what. It’s uncool? Uninteresting? Unexciting? Contextless? Unrelatable?

Exchange that took place over the last few months:

Them: “Come to me any time.”

Me: “Here are things that are concerning, with action plans to address them.”

“thank you” /takes notes

“Hey, they happened again and are getting worse.” x2

“You come back too much”

“ummmmm”

“I have an open door policy.”

🎲 Loving these little game books from Lost Pages. (Also, similar editions like Isle of Ixx and Vaults of Vaarn.)

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The #USMNT really Berhaltered that game last night.

My game hierarchy:

  • 🎲 Role-playing games
  • 🃏 Card games
  • 🕹️ Video games
  • ♟️ Board games

Read: The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter 📚

This was an extended magazine article, not a book. Entertaining, but with flimsy arguments.

My Reading Highlights and Notes

33 DAYS

We’re detached from the things that make us feel happy and alive, like connection, being in the natural world, effort, and perseverance.

800 FACES

He called this “prevalence-induced concept change.” Essentially “problem creep.” It explains that as we experience fewer problems, we don’t become more satisfied. We just lower our threshold for what we consider a problem. We end up with the same number of troubles. Except our new problems are progressively more hollow.

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Call it comfort creep. When a new comfort is introduced, we adapt to it and our old comforts become unacceptable. Today’s comfort is tomorrow’s discomfort. This leads to a new level of what’s considered comfortable.

Note: But is this just hedonic adaption?

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20 YARDS

50/50

The state of sumikiri provided by misogi is why ancient students of aikido would immerse themselves in natural bodies of cold water. Waterfalls, streams, or the ocean would wash away their defilements and reconnect them with the universe. More recently, the idea of misogi has been applied to other forms of using epic challenges in nature to cleanse the defilements of the modern world.

Lapsing into flow requires two conditions: The task must stretch a person’s limits and it must have a clear goal. The flow state, Csikszentmihalyi and the other researchers now believe, is a key driver of happiness and growth.

Preventing kids from exploring their edges is largely thought to be the cause of the abnormally high and growing rates of anxiety and depression in young people.

By facing some challenge but not an overwhelming amount, these people developed an internal capacity that left them more robust and resilient.

50. 70. OR 90.

along the way I took comfort in the fact that I am not alone. We all suck at new things. But clumsily exiting our comfort zones offers way too many upsides to ignore.

learning new skills is also one of the best ways to enhance awareness of the present moment,

Once we’ve done something over and over, our mind zones out of whatever old thing it’s doing.

In newness we’re forced into presence and focus. This is because we can’t anticipate what to expect and how to respond, breaking the trance that leads to life in fast forward. Newness can even slow down our sense of time. This explains why time seemed slower when we were kids. Everything was new then and we were constantly learning.

people remember duration as being shorter on a routine activity than on a nonroutine activity.”

150 PEOPLE

Kanazawa calls his idea the Savanna Theory of Happiness, and the general rule of thumb is, the higher the population density wherever a person is, the less happy they’ll likely be.

101 MILES

Our general discomfort with solitude may be due to how society frames it. Consider how we discipline children: time-out. Or how we punish prisoners: solitary confinement. This tradition, Bowker thinks, may have cued us to believe that normalcy is found through others and that solitude is punishment.

Research backs solitude’s healthy properties. It’s been shown to improve productivity, creativity, empathy, and happiness, and decrease self-consciousness.

(less than) 70 MILES AN HOUR

11 HOURS, 6 MINUTES

our collective lack of boredom is not only burning us out and leading to some ill mental health effects, but also muting what boredom is trying to tell us about our mind, emotions, ideas, wants, and needs.

Our brains essentially have two modes, focused and unfocused. Focused mode is a mind at attention. It’s on when we’re processing outside information, completing a task, checking our cellphone, watching TV, listening to a podcast, having a conversation, or anything else that requires us to attend to the outside world. Unfocused mode occurs when we’re not paying attention. It’s inward mind-wandering, a rest state that restores and rebuilds the resources needed to work better and more efficiently in the focused state. Time in unfocused mode is critical to get shit done, tap into creativity, process complicated information, and more.

Each time we reflexively take out our phone or turn on a computer or TV to kill boredom, it attaches another tiny anchor to our stress tolerance, dragging it lower. Scientists at Oregon State University found that daily stressors like lines and waits can improve our resistance to some brain diseases if we simply suffer through them and shrug them off. More of these everyday stressors are actually better for our brain.

And so, despite what productivity gurus will have us believe, the key to improving productivity and performance might be to occasionally do nothing at all. Or, at least, not dive into a screen. It prompts us to think distinctly, in a way that delivers more original ideas.

20 MINUTES, 5 HOURS, 3 DAYS

They discovered that 20 minutes outside, three times a week, is the dose of nature that most efficiently dropped people’s levels of the stress hormone cortisol. The catch to that study, of course, was that the participants couldn’t take their phones outside with them.

In nature your brain enters a mode Hopman called “soft fascination.” It’s similar to unfocused mode—but with one key difference. “Instead of mind-wandering and lightly focusing inwardly, you’re lightly focusing outwardly on the nature around you,”

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Brain scans show that soft fascination is a lot like meditation. Hopman described it as a mindfulness-like state that restores and builds the resources we need to think, create, process information, and execute tasks.

Twenty minutes, three times a week, is great. But it’s at the bottom of what some nature scientists have dubbed “the nature pyramid.”

Time in this semiwild stuff comprises level two of the nature pyramid. Research, in part thanks to Finland, says we should spend a total of about five hours in it a month.

The rewilding of our body and brain usually goes something like this: On the first day stress and health markers improve, but we are still adjusting to the discomfort of nature. We’re thinking about how it sucks to be cold, missing our phone, and still focusing on the anxieties we left behind—what’s happening at work and whether we closed the garage door. By day two our mind is settling and awareness is heightening. We’re caring less about what we left behind and are beginning to notice the sights, smells, and sounds around us. Then day three hits. Now our senses are completely dialed in and we can reach a fully meditative mode of feeling connected to nature. The discomfort isn’t so bad. It has, in fact, shifted to a welcome sensation that signals a calmness and feeling of life satisfaction.

12 PLACES

Our brains are wired to think loud = danger. We react by releasing adrenaline and cortisol, stress hormones that kick on the fight-or-flight response. Our doses of noise-induced stress hormones used to be infrequent but lifesaving. Today’s jarring background noises spur the same fight-or-flight response. But the difference is that these noises are nearly constant.

Gordon Hempton traveled the country in search of silence. He now believes that there are only 12 places in the Lower 48 where we can sit for 15 minutes and not hear a single noise created by humans. No droning planes, trains, automobiles. No blaring TVs, cellphones, or radios. Just natural soundscape. Some of these 12 places are spots in Minnesota’s Boundary Waters Canoe Area Wilderness, Hawaii’s Haleakala National Park, and Washington’s Hoh River Valley. North America’s other consistently quiet places are way up north, where I am: Alaska, the Arctic, Yukon, Northwest Territories, etc.

-4,000 CALORIES

The Japanese call this kuchisabishii, which literally means “lonely mouth” and describes our constant mindless eating.

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Just 3 percent of the people who lose weight in a given year manage to keep it off. Their secret isn’t some special food or exercise no one else has. It’s their ability to get comfortable with discomfort.

Continuously trying to add more stuff on top of what you’re doing and constantly experimenting with shiny new things is almost never the answer. It just adds another layer of stress and complication. I believe people should be doing less and eliminating limiters to progress.

Each person tracked and reported:

• How much and what they ate. This involved weighing all the food the person ate to know true serving sizes and, therefore, calories. • Their typical daily routine. • Their sleep schedule. • Their stress and energy levels. • Their daily weight. • Their workouts and step counts.

“I quickly ‘solved’ hundreds of problems just by virtue of improving a person’s awareness of their own behavior,” he said.

Once we eat, our brain releases dopamine, rewarding us for the behavior. This creates a circuit in the brain that associates food with dopamine.

Our brains evolved to release more dopamine when eating calorie-packed foods

The carb-fat combo doesn’t exist naturally, but it’s one that humans clamor for,

He recommended that I distract the discomfort of reward hunger with another form of discomfort: light exercise. “Find some ‘calorie negative’ ways of dealing with stress,” he said. “Walking is my number one. It relieves more stress and is health promoting. It leads you to burn calories rather than onboard them. And it removes you from the situation and adds time for reflection, where you can realize that you weren’t really hungry.”

Humans and other primates are uniquely predisposed to chronic stress. That’s because we’re smart, social creatures who have a lot of downtime to be “miserable to each other and stress each other out,” according to Robert Sapolsky,

The key quality that made a food filling: how heavy its 240-calorie serving size was.

12 TO 16 HOURS

Rarely feeling real hunger is a strong sign that a person is suffering from the ill effects of comfort creep,

The data shows that we don’t typically gain weight in a linear fashion, like a quarter pound each month for a total of three pounds at the end of the year. Most of us maintain our weight most of the year, then experience periods of gain,

But it is agreed that these people weren’t eating around the clock. The research suggests they likely ate one or two meals a day.

Other research shows that programming two “hungry days” per week where we eat around 500 calories delivers benefits.

Another option is to string together five “hungry days” in a row, once a month, eating just 700 total calories.

3 GOOD LEGS

12/31, 11:59:33 P.M.

some scholars have argued that American attempts to dematerialize are just another form of materialism.

It consists of “cramming our lives with compulsive activity, so that there is no time at all to confront the real issues….If we look into our lives, we will see clearly how many unimportant tasks, so-called ‘responsibilities’ accumulate to fill them up….Going on as we do, obsessively trying to improve our conditions, can become an end in itself and a pointless distraction.”

100+ POUNDS

≤50 POUNDS

80 PERCENT

81.2 YEARS

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Summer dos and don’ts: Tick safety - Indianapolis Recorder

However, the best way to prevent ticks is by wearing an EPA registered insect repellent. For those who want to take it a step further, Green recommends treating clothes with the insecticide Permethrin, which can be put on clothes and, once it dries, is effective for several washings. Permethrin not only repels ticks but stuns them, so they just fall off of clothes.

⚽️ ugh Manchester City is the worst