Review
- Clutter is costly
- Optimization is important
- Intentionality is satisfying
- Serve something you deeply value
- Be the best way to use technology to serve this value
- Have a role in your life that is constrained with a standard operating procedure that specifies how you use it
- Prioritize demanding activity over passive consumption
- Use skills to produce valuable things in the physical world
- Seek activities that require real-world, structured social interactions
- Anabaptism - Anabatism, Mennonites, and faith from those perspectives (RSS Feed)
- Digital Minimalism - intentionality around use of tech (RSS Feed)
- Games - a broad category for card games, board games, role-playing games, party games, live action games, and video games (RSS Feed)
- Humor - satire, comics, etc. (RSS feed)
- Ideas - food for thought, strategy, politics, philosophy, theology, psychology, etc. (RSS feed)
- Resilience - information/cybersecurity, sustainability, emotional & psychological resilience, posts from my Newsletter/Podcast (RSS feed)
- Review - year-in-review, looks back, but also comments on books, tools, video, music, events, etc. (RSS feed)
- Soccer - maybe I should just make this âsportsâ, but I really only share about Soccer (core teams: Indy Eleven, US Womenâs & Mensâs national teams, Chelsea FC) (RSS feed)
- No Time to Spare: Thinking About What Matters - Ursula K. Le Guin - This year cemented Le Guin as my favorite author, and this collection of blog posts demonstrates how much her talent can shine through even in such a simple form
- The Cross and the Lynching Tree - James H. Cone - Cone explores the parallels between them, why they were obvious to oppressed people, and why white theologians ignored those topics
- Upside-Down Kingdom, The: Updated Edition - Donald B Kraybill - if youâre frustrated that many modern Christians donât seem very Christlike, you may find this Anabaptist perspective refreshing
- The Undoing Project: A Friendship That Changed Our Minds - Michael Lewis - a biography and history of some of the pioneers of Behavioral Economics
- You Need a Budget: The Proven System for Breaking the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Cycle, Getting Out of Debt, and Living the Life You Want - Jesse Mecham - budgeting thatâs not about shaming, but about making sure you are mindful about putting your money where your values are
- Religion and Empire: People, Power, and the Life of the Spirit (Facets) - Richard A. Horsley - not a fully coherent work, but nevertheless a collection of insightful essays, particularly the one examining how secular religious holidays are molded to support empire
- The Fifth Season (The Broken Earth) - N. K. Jemisin - great speculative fiction
- The Obelisk Gate (The Broken Earth) - N. K. Jemisin - book 2 and still really liking it
- The Lathe of Heaven - Ursula K. Le Guin - what if you had the power to change the world with a dream?
- Changing Planes - Ursula K. Le Guin - delightful stories of fantasy cultures from someone whoâs learned to visit other realms of existence
- To Kill a Mockingbird, 50th Anniversary Edition - Harper Lee - you probably know this one, already
- Embassytown - China MiĂŠville - philosophical speculative fiction
- Scythe (Arc of a Scythe) - Neal Shusterman - YA dystopian, with lots of fodder for great philosophical discussions
- The Last Unicorn The Lost Journey - Peter S. Beagle - Iâm not familiar with the common version of this work, but this new edition of the original draft was very good
- The Gruffalo - Julia Donaldson - in this childrenâs picture book, the trickster is a mouse that avoids being eaten by all the predators
- The Last One - Alexandra Oliva - a suspenseful book that makes skillful use of dramatic irony
- A Coffin for Dimitrios - Eric Ambler - a classic crime novel with many points for consideration
- Little House in the Big Woods - Laura Ingalls Wilder - the start of the classic series
- Brief Cases (Dresden Files) - Jim Butcher - This collection from the Dresdenverse has some fun vignettes, especially from the bigfoot âRiver Shouldersâ
- Glass Houses: A Novel (Chief Inspector Gamache Novel) - Louise Penny - This was a fun mystery, made better by the audiobook narrator we heard (didnât require prior knowledge of the series)
- Uproooted - Naomi Novik - I had trouble rating this one, as it vacillated anywhere from 3 to 5 stars
- One mentee turned around a toxic relationship with their manager, had a great quarter, and is excited for next year
- Two mentees found better roles more suited to their skills and experience
- Another mentee received a well-deserved promotion
- Akimbo: I have no interest in marketing, but I do have interest in the way Seth Godin explores big ideas.
- Code Switch: If you don’t know what code switching is, you definitely need to listen to this. If you do, you will likely enjoy the variety of topics and perspectives and the charming hosts.
- Freakonomics Radio: granted, some of this is “pop econ”, but it’s entertaining and frequently has good investigative research or covers big ideas.
- It’s Going Down: the guests frequently outshine the host, but this anarchist podcast is a good source of news from the perspective of the marginalized & oppressed and is sure to expand your perspective.
- The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish: an extension of the Farnam Street learning website, this podcast is interviews with “big thinkers”. The interviews often wander, but there are almost always important takeaways or food for thought.
- Note to Self: a philosophical take on technology trends.
- Radiolab: entertaining and sometimes enlightening.
- The Rebel Beat: this podcast covers music and radical politics together, showcasing new and old music and interviewing artists of varying genres.
- Risky Business: information security current events coverage, with excellent analysis. Easy to skip the sponsor interviews, but even those are well done.
- Scene on Radio: I started this podcast with their excellent series “Seeing White”, and they continue to deliver with “Men”. As you add this one, make sure you have your app setup to listen to a season in order.
- Wait Wait…Don’t Tell Me!: a humorous weekly news quiz that you probably already know about.
This episode of the Knowledge Project has even more great parenting and development insights than the last one I shared.
Excellent episode of the Knowledge Project: Peaceful Parenting. Iâm not a parent and I still got a ton out of it.
Digital Minimalism: Reference and Review
Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World by Cal Newport âď¸âď¸âď¸âď¸
(Note: I wrote about my own experience with Digital Declutter here.)
Premise
Youâve probably already heard: billions of dollars are spent on psychology and technology to claim as much of your attention as possible, to sell as much advertisement possible. The addictiveness of sites, apps, and phones is not an accident, but rather a result carefully engineered to be just so.
In addition, âdarker emotions attract more eyeballs than positive and constructive thoughtsâ, so we are pushed towards outrage, anxiety, and despair.
Various attempts have been made to lessen the negative side effects and addictive properties of modern attention-economy technologies, but theyâve largely been unsustainable.
What to do? Newport Recommends Digital Minimalism.
Manifesto
Digital Minimalism - A philosophy of technology use in which you focus your online time on a small number of carefully selected and optimized activities that strongly support the things you value, and then happily miss out on everything else.
Digital Minimalism includes avoiding âlow-value activities that can clutter up [our] time and attention and end up hurting more than they help.â It also means asking ourselves âis this the best way to use technology to support this value?â The law of diminishing returns also applies, here.
The Principles
Summary quote from this section:
The sugar high of convenience is fleeting and the sting of missing out dulls rapidly, but the meaningful glow that comes from taking charge of what claims your time and attention is something that persists.
Digital Declutter Program
Newport recommends an intentional process to reassess your needs and values.
Put aside a thirty-day period during which you will take a break from optional technologies in your life. During this thirty-day break, explore and rediscover activities and behaviors that you find satisfying and meaningful. At the end of the break, reintroduce optional technologies into your life, starting from a blank slate. For each technology you reintroduce, determine what value it serves in your life and how specifically you will use it so as to maximize this value.
Taking the Break:
Evaluating âoptionalâ can be grey, but Newport gives this guideline:
consider the technology optional unless its temporary removal would harm or significantly disrupt the daily operation of your professional or personal life.
Newport also warns us to not confuse âconvenientâ with âcriticalâ, when analyzing our needs during this period.
Two methods to âtake a breakâ are bans and operating procedures. A ban is simply not using that site, tech, app, etc. during the period. Operating procedures entail using it under certain rules. For example, many test participants in the program moved many tasks to their laptop/desktop that they had often completed on their phones, or checked certain apps/sites only once a week, or during a certain window, or in a certain place.
In summary:
In the end, youâre left with a list of banned technologies along with relevant operating procedures. Write this down and put it somewhere where youâll see it every day.
Reintroducing Technologies
To be reintroduced, a technology must:
For the last item, this means asking âHow am I going to use this technologyâŚto maximize its value and minimize its harms?â
Practices
One of the side effects of the engineered attention economy is that weâve become accustomed to distract ourselves at the slightest moment of boredom or uncomfortable introspection. In addition, cutting out mindless swiping and browsing will introduce a lot of free time. If we donât have a plan to proactively use our freed time, our Digital Minimalism practice is likely to fail.
Thus, Newport introduces some possible practices to help us positively spend some time with our own thoughts, reclaim our free time as quality leisure, and further join the âAttention Resistance.â
During your tech break and again in your reintroduction, see which of these would be good to include in your habits.
Practice Area: Spend Time Alone
One of the challenges of the attention economy is that we are frequently stuck in:
Solitude Deprivation: A state in which you spend close to zero time alone with your own thoughts and free from input from other minds
Time with our own thoughts is important, in short, for mindfulness. Itâs important for the ability to consider problems, to examine & regulate emotions, reflect on values, and more.
Newport refers to the mounting evidence regarding how the attention-economy is drastically driving up anxiety levels. As I mentioned at the beginning, we know our negative emotions are targeted for reaction, but on top of that we are also repeatedly presented with âcuratedâ versions of othersâ selves, and finally, the systems are designed for us to continually seek the repeated micro-approvals of others. The attention economy is engineered in a way that drives anxiety.
Thus, the following practices help us have time without input from âother mindsâ, to help restore some control, attention, and mindfulness to our lives.
Through these practices, Newport recommends:
Conversation Centric Communication: Conversation is the only form of interaction that in some sense counts toward maintaining a relationship….Anything textual or non-interactiveâbasically, all social media, email, text, and instant messagingâdoesnât count as conversation and should instead be categorized as mere connection. In this philosophy, connection is downgraded to a logistical role. This form of interaction now has two goals: to help set up and arrange conversation, or to efficiently transfer practical information…. Connection is no longer an alternative to conversation; itâs instead its supporter.
On to the practices:
Practice: Leave Your Phone at Home
It may feel impossible, but this is a very recent feeling. If youâre concerned about emergencies, consider leaving it off, or in the glovebox of your car, for example. (Again, this is implementing operating procedures.)
Practice: Take Long Walks
By yourself. Without your phone.
Practice: Write Letters to Yourself
AKA write in notebooks. Take notes, journal, brainstorm, plan.
Practice: Donât Click âLikeâ
âNo reacts plzâ, we might say. This goes back to the micro-approvals and anxiety I mentioned above, as they drive the slot-machine behavior of social media sites. If you must react, share a comment. Or your own writing. Or even better, have a conversation with the person. âAdopt the baseline rule that youâll no longer use social media as a tool for low-quality relationship nudges.â
Practice: Consolidate Texting
Keep your phone in Do Not Disturb and only check according to an operating procedure. Setup your DND to allow calls through from critical contacts.
Practice: Hold Conversation Office Hours
Pick a time when you are open for free conversation. Maybe itâs your commute. Maybe itâs literally open office hours. Maybe itâs a recurring walk. Whatever it is, offer this time as an opportunity for conversations.
Practice Area: Reclaim Leisure
All this freed time can lead to existential anxiety or produce negative behaviors (mindless consumption, alcohol/drug abuse, etc.) to fill the void. Newport claims giving more thought, attention, and effort to our leisure will make it more fulfilling and restorative, and help us keep on the Digital Minimalism path.
Here are the three principles, then, of leisure:
âThe value of the pursuit is often proportional to the energy invested.â
Practice: Fix Or Build Something Every Week
Per principle #2, this should be analog. Newport recommends trying to learn and apply a skill each week over Digital Declutter period.
Practice: Schedule Your Low-Quality Leisure
Per your operating procedures, you should decide when, how much, how, etc. For example, maybe you only stream TV with family and friends, and only for X hours on the weekends. Maybe you only check in on Facebook events, groups, and family pictures for an hour on the weekends. In Newportâs findings, âthe vast majority of regular social media users can receive the vast majority of the value these services provide their life in as little as twenty to forty minutes of use per weekâ, as opposed to the 3+ hours that the average person spends daily on their smartphones.
Practice: Join Something
Join a club, meetup, organization, etc. Or start your own!
Practice: Follow Leisure Plans
This may sound backwards, but actually planning your leisure may give you more opportunities to do it, by prioritizing it in your schedule.
Newport recommends a seasonal plan and weekly planning.
A good seasonal plan contains two different types of items: objectives and habits that you intend to honor in the upcoming season. The objectives describe specific goals you hope to accomplish, with accompanying strategies for how you will accomplish them. The habits describe behavior rules you hope to stick with throughout the season.
For each of the objectives in the seasonal plan, figure out what actions you can do during the week to make progress on these objectives, and then, crucially, schedule exactly when youâll do these things.
Practice Area: Join the Attention Resistance
At this point in history, âextracting eyeball minutes, the key resource for companies like Google and Facebook, has become significantly more lucrative than extracting oil.â
Practice: Delete Social media from Your Phone
Once you have your operating procedures around use, you probably donât need it there, anyway.
Practice: Turn Your Devices Into Single-Purpose Computers
This is about focus and not multi-tasking. Of course computers are general purpose machines, but âthe power of a general-purpose computer is in the total number of things it enables the user to do, not the total number of things it enables the user to do simultaneously.â
Practice: Use Social Media Like a Professional
People who work with Social Media for their job typically have operating procedures to be effective.
Have a careful plan for how you use the different platforms, with the goal of âmaximizing good information and cutting out the waste.â
For example, fix the signal-to-noise ratio by being careful about what and who you follow.
Practice: Embrace Slow Media
Slow Media or Slow News is like the Slow Food or Slow Church movement. Embrace the patient, high-quality, well-considered sources and conversations.
Avoid junk and reactivity. Avoid âBreaking Newsâ, which is almost always low-quality, error-prone, and often emotionally manipulative.
Seek opposing viewpoints. Follow feeds from good writers. Save/bunch stories to read once a week.
Practice: Dumb Down Your Smartphone
Consider a dumbphone, no phone, or something like the Light Phone or the Punkt Phone.
Conclusion
I liked this book and look forward to implementing my break and examination during Lent. Want to discuss the book? Message me and letâs have a conversation!
First change I’m making due to Digital Minimalism: going through my many Slack instances this morning and leaving all the channels that don’t have needed info for me, and are instead just chatty rooms. #DigitalMinimalism
Start with Why micro notes/review
“Solitude Deprivation: A state in which you spend close to zero time alone with your own thoughts and free from input from other minds.”
from Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World
I donât mind stealing bread
from the mouths of decadence.
But I canât feed on the powerless
when my cupâs already overfilled.
Introducing Blog Categories and Specific Feeds!
Good news! Per this announcement, Micro.blog now supports categories, and therefore, so does this blog.
Categories allow you to view or subscribe to a selection of blog posts related to a certain theme. My collections could evolve over time, but you can always see the live list at the top of my archive page. I created the following breakdown, which most of my posts will fit into:
Questions? Comments?
Clever idea for a fountain pen the cap is scale ruler. #Kickstarter đ
From Distant Shores: we're published!
Strange invaders land on the shores of a peninsula known for its independence; rumors about their true purpose are numerous and varied. Two old friends reunite after more than a decade, brought together by a young man looking to advance himself in the world.
Our book is a consolidated collection of Actual Play fiction for a Burning Wheel campaign that ran for more than sixty sessions over the course of two years.
Eloy Cintron was GM. Neil Goodrich (Alistair), Jose Lozada (Aedan), and I (Gyles) were players. Along the way, Neil Goodrich wrote actual play reports as stylized fiction, and the rest of the players contributed some content, as well.
Now, Neil has bound that content together as a beautiful book. Totaling 608 pages, it’s even larger than Burning Wheel itself. ![mp-photo-alt[]=mp-photo-alt[]=mp-photo-alt[]=mp-photo-alt[]=](https://blog.grotenhuis.info/uploads/2019/dee4bd526f.jpg)
Inside, you’ll find a map of the Braemar Penninsula (courtesy of John Love) 
Also, a commissioned picture of the cast (from Marcin S),
It even includes stylized starting and ending character descriptions & sheets.
As we start to go back through the fiction, it’s amazing to see how much foreshadowing there is about how the situation and the characters will turn out.
Because it was my character, I’ve included pictures of how Gyles started out. How he ended was an entirely different pictureâŚ. 
I am really excited about this book. Ask me anything!
TWSBI Go is great. Overtaken Lamy Safari as top-value fountain pen đ
Travelers is the best show.
Reminder: don’t eat at Patachou restaurants. First, we had the frivolous lawsuit against Crust, now we have this Grade A bullshit from Patachou.
Letâs have an Epiphany
âFor, look, darkness covers the earth
and deep darkness covers the nations,
but the Lord shines on you;
his splendor appears over you.â
Epiphany
The twelve days of Christmas have concluded, and we are now in Epiphany. This is when Christians celebrate the arrival of the Magi who came to witness the newborn Jesus. In some traditions, we also celebrate his baptism, or even Jesus’s miracles and ministry.
Epiphany is a âmanifestationâ. As the verse above alludes to, and as Pastor Shannon says, it’s the âLight breaking in.â
In these dark times, where are you seeing the light breaking in?
A Theme for January
In Common Prayer, the suggested theme for January is âShared Economics.â The economics of Caesar and Empire are harmful to people and the world, but the Spirit repeatedly calls people to live differently. The prophets and Jesus had a lot to say about how we handle economics, yet it’s a topic that many Christians avoid engaging deeply. In January, we are invited to investigate alternatives and to perform holy experiments.
This January, I’ll be reading and writing about one of the suggested books: God’s Economy: Redefining the Health and Wealth Gospel.
Want to join me? Let me know!
2018 Book Review
Goodreads records the entirety of my 2018 reading, here, but Iâd like to specifically offer to you the books that I enjoyed the most.
I didnât read any books this year that I gave 5 stars (these are rare for me), but I read many that were very good (4-stars). Iâd be delighted to discuss any of them!
Nonfiction
Fiction
Related: other 2018 Review Posts:
2018 was full of challenges for me, and likely for you. Were we able to grow from them? Will we in 2019?
âOur American Christians are too busy saving the souls of white Christians from burning in hellfire to save the lives of black ones from present burning in fires kindled by white Christians.â
Ida B. Wells quoted in The Cross and the Lynching Tree by James H. Cone
2018 Mentoring Update
One of my greatest pleasures is mentoring and coaching. Helping people grow, learn, and achieve their goals is a great feeling and incredibly rewarding.
One of my objectives in mentoring is to make sure that underrepresented and marginalized people are getting solid support and seeing growth opportunities. In 2018 I worked with five people (outside my org chart, that is), and four of them are from backgrounds typically underrepresented within STEM (in general) and information security (in particular). Being involved with inclusive employee resource groups is a good thing in general, but also helped to make connections that helped foster this objective.
We had a lot of great conversations this year, asked a lot of good questions, and leaned into challenges. While I can’t dig into specifics of these (obviously), here are a few outcomes I’m happy to highlight:
I’m looking forward to new mentoring opportunities in 2019!
Related: other 2018 Review Posts:
2018 Podcast Review
I’ve added and culled a lot of podcasts over the last few years. Here are top ones on my list, and why I listen to them.
I recommend Overcast for listening to podcasts, and am a happy subscriber.
Related: other 2018 Review Posts: